Wisdom in the House of Mourning: Kaddish, My Father, and Me

A son’s journey from grief to growth. His father’s path from Auschwitz to America. A ritual with ancient roots that changed everything.

Advance Praise for Wisdom in the House of Mourning

“As antisemitism rises and October 7 reshapes Jewish life, Wisdom in the House of Mourning shows what resilience looks like in practice, grounded in memory, carried forward through continuity, and defined by responsibility. A timely guide for a Jewish community navigating a dangerous and defining moment.” — William C. Daroff, Chief Executive Officer, Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations

“Mark Isakowitz’s riveting book is a story of Jewish faith, family, and a son’s journey of discovery. Through his deep exploration of his father’s remarkable life—and his own mourning of his father’s death—Mark inspires each of us to reflect on who we are, what we value, and to cherish our many blessings.” — The Honorable Dave McCormick, United States Senator (PA)

“In this moving and thoughtful book, Mark Isakowitz honors his father’s journey from the horrors of the Holocaust to a life rebuilt with dignity, purpose, and deep Jewish commitment. Along the way, he captures the enduring strength of a people whose story has been shaped by loss, renewal, and an unwavering dedication to learning, faith, and responsibility to one another.” — The Honorable Ted Deutch, President, the American Jewish Committee

“Mark Isakowitz, a friend and mentor for over thirty years, has guided some of the most important leaders in American government and business. This beautiful and personal book is a moving tribute to his father and an exploration of the questions Mark never had a chance to ask him. I learned so much about how the Jewish laws of mourning can turn sadness and sorrow into renewal and discovery.” — Dina Powell McCormick, President and Vice Chairman, Meta

“Isakowitz’s exploration of family history and personal faith is both absorbing and moving. These pages are filled with learning, emotion, honesty, and, above all, gratitude. Everyone who reads them will benefit.” — Matthew Continetti, columnist, The Wall Street Journal